Saturday, April 5, 2008

MOI?


Somewhere in the comments section of this blog, someone suggested I write about my life ala "Sex and the City" and I had to laugh. Still laughing. My life is more like "mom in the suburbs". Make that "crazy mom in the suburbs". I don't even wear heels any more or tight clothing. I live in my birks and all kinds of flats. I'm in my t-shirts and jeans or workout clothes, though I haven't actually worked out in over a month. I remember feeling grumpy years ago, after word got to me that a woman in my community said I don't take care of my looks anymore. Sigh. I had to remind the messenger that someone's image of me was clearly not about who I really am today. The days of make-up and heels were long gone. I'm not the type to get all dolled up to bring my kids to and from school. I am someone else today. Glamour is not for me. Not so long ago, someone from an ad agency sent an email asking if I would consider doing an ad for an anti-aging product. I'm not laughing about that anymore, but I did. I believe in aging. I embrace it. Though, like everyone else, I find myself resisting change and lament the sprouting of added flesh and jiggle, I know that to go against aging is to go against nature. I can't do that. I would love to be able to exercise more, but the reality is I am tired most days and I have learned to listen to my body rather than impose on it. My partner thinks my jiggles are all woman. My kids love me, too, and make sure they add a squeeze or three, each time they tell me. So, "Sex and the City" it isn't, but my life has become so much more: balanced, inwardly rich, and infinitely more true.

Oh, and notice what the poster says after "Coming Soon"? "Only in Theaters". Ponder that.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

AMEN! really, there are days that when i pick up the boys, i'm in my most comfortable, beside all the dolled up parents doing the same thing. i wonder if stan will be embarrassed if i do that---and, well, i did ask him and he's like, "you know, if you're comfy, go ahead!" ;)

Panjee said...

Hey Jen,

Talaga. Great that Stan supports the natural look. It's not like we look basura naman (but there are days especially since I moved that I actually, er, look one ligo away from being basura look), but the whole make-up, parlor, high heels look is simply not practical for me. Yay for partners who love us for that!