Saturday, May 3, 2008

MORE ON CEBU PACIFIC DRAMA



Angry, hungry, tired people--all of them. What could have been done differently? We could have been informed--properly and forthrightly -- about the delay, from the moment they knew it would happen. Someone should have come out with a megaphone because the paging system in that departure area is not efficient at all and is mostly drowned out by the deafening noise of humanity and the television sets.  Cebu Pacific officials should have ensured that everyone on that flight was kept abreast of what was really happening so that we could have made choices early on. We should have been given options.  There were many who were still travelling on from Iloilo to places like Antique.  Could they have been accommodated on other flights? Could any of us have been? We waited 6 hours. Surely something could have been done for us in that time. 

What they don't realize is the manner in which they DIDN'T handle the situation is at the crux of everyone's animosity. We weren't treated like human beings. Though I don't blame the harried airport "runners" who must be so used to this sort of ranting from irate customers but who are also not equipped to handle them  (they were already fighting among themselves from the tension), it would have helped if they faced us squarely and told us the truth. Instead, they stopped looking at us.  One counter girl just ignored us until Mae said, "Look. They don't even look at us. They don't even bother to listen to us." Then she made an effort to look. But that was all she could do.
 
They treated us like we were the biggest, sharpest thorns on their sides. No. We were all paying passengers.  When they started handing out travel vouchers, others were saying all they needed was a plane to get to Iloilo.  "Stop trying to buy us and give us the service we paid for and deserve, " was the message everyone wanted to shout. My heart went out to the mothers and their children who had been there for hours, each child getting whinier, their mothers getting both worried, angry and irritable. At the heart of this issue is a huge question about truth and service--a question that hovers above and beneath our beloved country.

Friday, May 2, 2008

CEBU PACIFIC: TIME TO SHUT DOWN?



It was supposed to be a regular flight to Iloilo. Cebu Pacific Flight #5J 457. Departure time: 3:50. We were in the hotter than hot departure area by 2pm, waiting patiently for seats to present themselves. Eventually, they did and we managed to settle and entertain ourselves despite the chaos. We were to board at 3:20.  3:20 came and still no sign of boarding. Then a mother behind us-- who was sitting with her husband and baby--said the flight was delayed and we were leaving at 7:15. Unbelievable. It was so unbelievable we didn't believe it. So we went to the monitor where it simply showed "CHECKING-IN". It was only at past 4pm that it changed to "DELAYED" with 7:15pm as the new departure time. Strange that some people seemed to know 7:15pm was the new departure time while a good number of us didn't know anything. 

Then came the first delivery of styrofoam-packed food and the long cue of passengers waiting to claim their portion. Warrior-friend, colleague and fellow traveller, Jay, cued up but the ration wasn't for our flight and the crew refused to serve us, as they needed to do it in batches. It was for the Puerto Princesa flight that was already a good 2 hours delayed (they eventually left after a 3 hour delay). We were to get our food a few hours later. From there the afternoon progressed horribly. No one would give us information. We had to seek it out and mostly got blank stares and practised but empty replies: "wala pa po kasi kaming nakukuhang information tungkol sa eroplano", "wala po kasi kaming manager dito".  It was our companion--fierce, wonderful, all- woman Mae, who practically collared one of the runners and told him to go get a manager.  She looked at her watch and said "7:10 ha. 7:10 kita inutusan". Yes,  by that time it was 7:10 and we were nowhere near boarding.

In the meantime, several flights had come and gone going to Caticlan, Kalibo, Cebu, Tacloban, Tagbilaran--not one was headed towards Iloilo. Horror stories were surfacing. There was no food allocation for the non-paying children. One mother was told they were simply not included. People were angry, asking for an explanation--many of us simply wanted the truth: were we going to be able to leave or not? By then my group had been in the airport for more than 5 hours.

Finally, someone announced our flight number and said the new departure date would be 8:55pm. There was a lot of booing and a lot more chaos. People were angry and there was still no one to talk to. No one was coming forward to address the group and answer questions. We cornered a group of female runners (a term I use for them because they are airport employees but not connected directly to the airline and all they did was run around) who all looked nervous and confused.  One tried to explain: "Baka po mapaaga ang alis niyo ng mga 8:15 po (instead of 8:55)". By this time it was 7:30pm and last we heard, there was no word yet about the arrival of THAT plane, so how could she tell us we might actually leave early? We pointed this out to her and she crumpled. We asked again to be simply told the truth and be given a guaranteed time of departure (really, how kind and accommodating of us, since we were already sitting there half the day), but all that did was bring us back to square one--the square of no information. At this point they started issuing travel vouchers--one way tickets to any destination in Luzon, free!

Whoopee. Whatever. But we were determined to get any kind of remuneration for our agony. We dutifully lined-up to get ours.  (There were two IloiIlo flights scheduled that day: ours at 3:50 and another one at 7:15. It doesn't take a genius to see that the aim was to collapse both flights into one at the expense of the passengers.)  By then I had reached the point I normally don't like to reach because once I cross it I never turn back. This point for me had been reached when 7:15 came and went (that was already 4 hours from the original boarding time plus 1 hour waiting)and there was still no plane.  (Oh, at some point a "manager" did arrive but he should have just stayed invisible because he was just as effective as the other zero-information workers in the area.)But I was with a group so we made a group decision to wait until the arrival of the plane at 8:15. That time came and went. So we started the ball running for our refund. 

First, they got our travel vouchers back, "E kasi kung hindi naman po kayo sasakay..." How's that for really crappy service? But nevermind, I was out of there and determined to never buy another Cebu Pacific ticket. By the time we got outside--back to the ticketing area for yet another round of delays, it was announced that the flight was finally boarding. Alas, I was past that point. Half the group decided to go anyway, while Dale and I decided to go by what we agreed and call it a day. I was sick, tired and angry. 

So, there we were--refund time.  Still another round of horrors. Surprise! There was a "refund fee" of P336 each way, per person. Imagine hearing this at the end of a 6 hour and 40-minute wait where you were pretty much treated as invisible--nevermind that I was nursing a cold and cough in that congested, terrible departure terminal.  We suffered, they gave appeasement vouchers which were taken away, and then we had to pay to get our money back which, by the way may or may not be processed in 45 days. Cebu Pacific should just go out of business because it clearly has no idea what it is doing. It has not idea what customer service means.

I had to tell the lady at the ticket counter to stop talking and feeding us with more terrible justifications of their substandard service because she was just making things worse.  Really. Stop already. That's what I said. Then she shoved two forms for us to sign.  Just look how legible they are. All you can see are the check marks that we were supposed to fill up:
I was so angry and insulted I showed it to her and let it go, making it flutter prettily beneath her. I won't even go into all the petty exchanges we had and how I had to point out obvious things just so we could be served. I just wanted to go home. With our poorly xeroxed promise for a refund in hand, we finally made our way out of the chaos, nearly colliding with a trolley full of sytrofoam-packed meals. Hah. Another few hours for a few hundred miserable Cebu Pacific customers.  Just as I thought that, a porter muttered, "Naku, may na-delay na naman." Just another day in the life of a promising service that turned into a business whose time is running out. 

In the car at last, Dale's father called to check on him.  He berated him for even flying Cebu Pacific, "Why risk your lives?", he asked. At that moment I did  feel that I had experienced a death of some kind-- an alternative to the monopoly and bad service of PAL,  the promise of good service and the chance for every Filipino to see the Philippines without breaking the bank or wasting a perfectly good day of his life at the airport. 

Monday, April 28, 2008

A New World


During a conversation with my boys, the topic of marriage came up. My younger son said he might have ten wives when he grows up. At first I panicked and said something unenlightened like, "Well, it's better to have only one so we must choose well", which in hindsight was not the lesson I wanted to teach them. Plus it also intimated that their father and I didn't choose each other well, because we are no longer together. I should have thought of those things right then, but my old mental models kicked in; my brainwashed self simply panicked. What I really want them to learn is how to live authentically and have their life choices emanate from that space. Though the Catholic Church had its function in history, I feel it simply has not evolved with the world. This is not to say that immorality is the new order of the day. It isn't. I'm saying that the structure of our institutions must now be renewed from the inside--the same way morality must be an internal compass, not dogma dictated by archaic law that was necessary when it was born into the world, but is now no longer relevant. No, I don't think it is necessarily okay to have several spouses. But I don't think it's okay to label or generalize either and say more than one spouse is bad and one is good. I still think one is a magical number, but I also think that deeper issues are at play. Was the marriage authentic? Did both parties honor the covenant? These are the bigger questions that must be asked. I know of a lot of marriages that are unbroken from the outside but are a total mess of lies and deception within. Is that better for your children than each of their parents living out of the space of truth and integrity, even though they are apart? Our institutions must be renewed and we have to start thinking about the ways in which we have defined right and wrong. The substance of any marriage is what is most important. It is not tenure. I have friends who rail against the kind of marriage their parents had because even as children, they could see through the hypocrisy--the father keeping mistresses, the mother turning a blind eye but sowing resentment and bitterness for decades. It was so toxic and painful for them. Separation is also painful and it is a deep and painful gash I will always carry for my children, but if both parties are coming from a space of wanting to live authentically and can no longer do so in the context of marriage, then the children are blessed with a way of life and love that is aligned with Truth, despite the outward picture of "brokenness". I don't see my family today as broken. We do not all live in the same house, but we are living out of a consciousness of love and respect still--on a level that was not possible before.  It is not how many husbands or wives you ended up having but how truthful and honest you were in the union. You can still be in a marriage but bring a deeper,  darker brand of separation into your family--in the realm of each member's soul life--if you are not living with integrity. That is infinitely more damaging to the children. They learn to accept that living a lie is ok. They learn that deceit, anger, bitterness and betrayal are par for the course. A new world awaits and it has to do with a new consciousness that is aligned with truth, integrity and love. It is no longer defined by dead concepts, unexamined rules and dogma. May we all journey together on its rich and textured path.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

MAY 16, 2008. BE THERE!



The next PAGASA forum is on.  The last two were fantastic and this promises to be another enriching ride.  See you there.